The Power of Self-Love with Shruti Sethi Singh
In this episode of Kabir Vani Podcast, we welcomed Shruti Sethi Singh, a self-love and relationship coach for women. She brings clarity to a simple yet transformative truth: everything begins with how you see yourself.
What is Self-Love?
Shruti explains that self-love means embracing every part of yourself—your body, your emotions, your past, even the aspects you dislike. True self-love is not instant; it is a conscious practice that takes effort and awareness. Without it, relationships struggle because we look for validation outside instead of filling our own cup.
Her Journey from Self-Hate to Healing
Shruti shared openly that she once faced deep self-hate and depression. It was only through accepting her flaws, forgiving herself, and practicing guided meditation that she transformed her life. Today, she teaches women that healing begins within—only then can you manifest the right partner or healthy relationship.
Manifestation and the Law of Attraction
Shruti clarified the difference: Law of Attraction is a universal law, always at work. Manifestation is the process of using it intentionally. She highlighted techniques like the 369 Tesla Method and 55×5 journaling, showing how consistent focus creates powerful results.
Breaking Limiting Beliefs
One of her core teachings is identifying and releasing limiting beliefs. She suggests writing down negative beliefs, burning them to symbolize release, and replacing them with progressive affirmations. For example, instead of saying “I’m the richest person,” say “Money is flowing into my account every day.”
Forgiveness: The Missing Piece
According to Shruti, many women struggle with self-forgiveness. We often forgive others but carry guilt for tolerating pain or making mistakes. Without forgiving ourselves, self-love cannot flourish.
Relationships and Gender Intelligence
Shruti emphasizes understanding how men and women think differently. By respecting these differences and communicating consciously, couples can build mature, balanced relationships. For women, this means realizing men often prioritize responsibility and security, while for men, it means honoring women’s emotional depth.
Spirituality vs Religion
For Shruti, spirituality is the study of the spirit, while religion is a path to God. She doesn’t limit herself to labels but sees every practice as leading toward divine awareness.
Practical Tools to Start Today
- Begin with guided meditations like those by Deepak Chopra.
- Write and listen to your own affirmations daily.
- Practice manifestation on small things like a parking spot or a coffee.
- Journal and release limiting beliefs.
- Consciously forgive yourself for past choices.
FAQ
Q1: What is the first step toward self-love?
Start with acceptance—acknowledge your body, emotions, and past without judgment.
Q2: Can manifestation help attract the right partner?
Yes. But first, self-love creates worthiness. Without it, you may attract the wrong relationships.
Q3: How do I break limiting beliefs?
Write them down, burn them, and replace them with progressive affirmations that feel believable.
Q4: What’s the simplest meditation for beginners?
Begin with guided meditation or mantra chanting to build focus without pressure.
Q5: Is it possible to manifest an ex back?
Shruti advises against it. Instead, focus on manifesting the feelings of love and connection—you’ll attract the right partner, not necessarily the same person.
Final Takeaway
Shruti Sethi Singh reminds us that the foundation of everything—relationships, success, happiness—is self-love. Once you hold your power, forgive yourself, and practice manifestation with faith, life opens up in extraordinary ways.
If You Want to Contact Shruti
You can listen to the full conversation with Shruti Sethi Singh on the Kabir Vani Podcast, available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Prime Music.
