Shivani Shah: Resilience, Motherhood, and the Power of Belief
On this heartfelt episode of the Kabir Vani Podcast, host Kabir ‘Vani’ Zariwala sits down with Shivani Shah—advocate by education, lifestyle influencer by passion, and a woman whose story is stitched with courage, pain, and triumph.
Shivani’s journey reflects what many women silently go through, dreams, struggles, heartbreaks, and yet, an unshakable belief that life can turn around with faith and perseverance.
Growing Up Between Surat and Mumbai
Shivani was born in Mumbai but raised between Surat and the city she always dreamed of—Bombay. She recalls her father as her strongest role model, someone who gave her both freedom and responsibility.
Her childhood was simple, marked by average academics but extraordinary encouragement from her parents. They never asked her why she wanted something; they simply stood behind her decisions. This strong foundation shaped her into someone who believed anything was possible if she desired it with full intent.
Love, Marriage, and Finding the Right Partner
Shivani met her now-husband during her college years. By her own admission, he was “the worst boyfriend but the best husband.” Their relationship grew from casual beginnings into a lifelong partnership rooted in understanding, patience, and support.
She emphasizes how vital it is to grow together as humans—sharing hardships, witnessing each other’s struggles, and becoming each other’s strength.
The Storm: Ectopic Pregnancy and Loss
In 2012, life tested Shivani in ways she could never have imagined. She was rushed to the hospital with unbearable pain, only to discover she had a severe ectopic pregnancy. After days of misdiagnosis, her fallopian tube had ruptured, causing internal bleeding.
Doctors called it one of the most painful experiences a woman could endure—worse than childbirth. Shivani survived, but the trauma left scars far beyond the physical.
Instead of breaking her, this experience awakened a deep spiritual belief. Thursdays dedicated to Lord Hanuman became her anchor. She realized life could change in an instant and chose to live with gratitude.
The Long Battle: IVF, Loss, and Hope
For years after, Shivani and her husband tried to conceive. She endured multiple failed IUI and IVF cycles, facing physical exhaustion and emotional heartbreak. She openly shares how draining IVF treatments can be—dozens of injections, hormonal shifts, and countless disappointments.
At times, she avoided attending baby showers or meeting newborns—not out of jealousy, but because she didn’t want to carry heavy, negative energy into someone else’s joy. Her family’s support became her cushion, reminding her that pain is easier to bear when love surrounds you.
Manifestation in Action: The Arrival of Tamanna
After failed cycles and emotional exhaustion, Shivani and her husband decided to pause treatments and take a trip to Europe. Miraculously, upon returning, she conceived naturally.
Her daughter, Tamanna (later named Tamara), was the very dream she had manifested for years. Shivani always believed she would have a girl, and her conviction never wavered. “This was my tamanna—my heartfelt wish,” she says with pride.
Motherhood, Challenges, and Lifestyle Influence
Motherhood wasn’t easy. From health complications post-delivery to the struggles of balancing self-care and childcare, Shivani faced every storm with resilience.
She became determined to raise her daughter without screens, a promise she has successfully kept till today. Her background in Montessori teaching equipped her to make parenting both mindful and joyful.
During COVID-19, she began sharing her journey online, first as a parenting influencer and later expanding into lifestyle content—travel, fashion, and positivity. What started as casual posts turned into a platform that inspires thousands.
Faith, Fear, and a Second Test
In 2023, Shivani faced yet another ectopic pregnancy. Reliving her past trauma, she almost gave up hope. But this time, medication helped her avoid surgery, and she came out stronger.
She acknowledges that fear had begun to dominate her life, but through reflection and spiritual grounding, she chose to shift her focus back to joy, gratitude, and living in the moment.
Lessons from Shivani Shah’s Journey
Shivani’s story is a reminder that life is never a straight line—it’s a series of tests, surprises, and moments of grace. Some of her most powerful insights include:
- Manifestation works when paired with belief and aligned action.
- Family support changes everything—love reduces suffering, even if it can’t erase it.
- Resilience is built in silence—through pain, patience, and faith.
- Motherhood is sacred but should never come at the cost of self-worth.
- Gratitude is the real anchor—celebrating small joys keeps the spirit alive.
Closing Thoughts
Shivani Shah’s journey is more than just resilience; it is about choosing faith when fear feels easier, love when bitterness tempts, and gratitude when life feels unfair.
You can listen to the full conversation with Shivani Shah on the Kabir Vani Podcast, available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Prime Music.
Contact Shivani Shah
- Name: Shivani Shah
- Instagram: @meenminee
